fear – Steli Efti

Tricks of the Mind: I Was Thinking My Feelings

November 16, 2021 by Steli Efti

I’ve always been a very cerebral person, relying primarily on my intellect to achieve my goals and solve problems I encounter. For a very long time, I equated the mind with myself. I viewed the body as a vehicle that just carries my mind. But as I started getting more in touch with my feelings, …

My Fear of Stagnation: What if I Stop Changing and Evolving?

October 2, 2021 by Steli Efti

Every year I want to change, evolve, level up. I hate stagnation, fear it. There’s nothing more terrifying to me than the thought that I could have peaked already, that it’s never going to be more than what is now. I still think that the wish to evolve and grow is fine. But being terrified …